Sick and Tired

As the rain continues to overwhelm me tonight, my heart and my mine are also in constant distress. With my back that's also seeking my attention, I am almost going to give up.

The weeks has been tiring. The daily stuff is already becoming toxic for me. I dislike the travel.the cold.the heavy bag.the meetings.I only love  teaching.

I am angry at God now and I almost curse HIM. I asked him the same question concerning my family. "Why did he allow me to have this people in my life?"
I hate the fact that there are always vicious cycles that happen. I am gonna explode soon.I am almost forgetting I am a yogin and a moral theologian. My family is pulling me down.

I dislike the dysfunctionality. I cant seem to move forward everytime I am confronted with family issues.
Why do I have parenst like them? I have been battered when I was young. My sisters were not spared. My brother too. My mom's the violent type. I havent even loved the fact that she curses. She's not the typical gentle mom.I havent even remembered the time she hugged us.I grow up learning to gentle on my own accord.

My dad is milder but he has no great initiative for providing us what we actually need. I grew up trying to pay for my tuition. He maybe a cool dad but he has become so distant.

My siblings are pains to me too. I couldnt even depend on them. I abhor going home.

Right now, I want to forget about them.I want to be free from their dependency. i am so tired. I am so totally sick of the constant bickering.I loathe my sister's violent tendencies.

Family's arent perfect but hey, I am very consumed!

Please God...help me accept all these.

Retrograde Planets

 ...so I was literally uncontrollable last week.It actually resulted in me not having seen my family.Anger, Huge anger..Disorganized thoughts.OH, God! I was a total mess.My family suffered.

In case you need to know....

All the planets move around the Sun in the same direction (counterclockwise) but they are in different orbits and traveling at different speeds.  Thus, at certain times they "pass" each other, much as you might pass another car on the freeway; the other car isn't really moving backwards, it only appears that way.  Thus, there are times when, from the Earth, a planet appears to be retrograde, i.e. moving backwards.  Like the slower car on the freeway, this is only an illusion, but astrologically it is considered retrograde and this phenomenon has specific effects, generally to internalize the energy.

Since planetary orbits are predictable, we know when this will occur.  And this is a good thing, because there are some things that you probably don't want to do when certain planets are retrograde.  For example, Mercury retrograde is nearly famous for the communication problems it causes.  Buying a car or major appliance at this time generally does not go well.  Pardon the expression, but it's almost as if a curse has been placed on them and they are prone to breakdown and malfunction on a regular basis.  Phone, cable, internet and computer problems in general are also common as well as misunderstandings between people, who are also affected since Mercury is the natural ruler of our thought process.

Each planet has a specific effect when it goes retrograde, which has been compared by astrologer, Christine Shaw, to placing it in Capricorn.  Retrograde planets aren't only a nuisance during transits, but they can also have a specific effect if found in your Natal or Progressed Chart.  Basically, the energy that planet emits will be turned inward.   For example, Mars usually lends itself to energy and action but in retrograde tends toward stalling any action related to the house it's transiting or sometimes passive aggression.  Venus affects what we find pleasing in others or aesthetically but when retrograde, we have a hard time expressing our emotions in this area.  Consider that Venus retrograde is the goddess of war as opposed to the goddess of love.  The chart at the bottom of this page gives a brief summary of the effects of each planet, though books have been written on this subject so it is far from simple in its astrological effects.

If the retrograde planet is one of your personal planets, i.e. the Sun, Moon, your Sun Sign ruler and your Ascendant ruler, then the effects for you will be more dramatic than others.  Which area of your life will take the brunt of its wayward journey will depend on which House it's transiting and any aspects it may throw along the way.  Retrograde planets are indicated on astrological charts with an "Rx." 

Before a planet can move backwards it has to stop which is referred to as "stationing."  Once it starts to slow down the retrograde effects will be felt and they won't end until it stations again and resumes posigrade motion.  And sadly, the effects of any retrograde period won't entirely diminish until the planet actually overtakes the position it was in when it decided to go backwards, which is called the "shadow period."  Once the planet resumes direct motion you will typically become aware of what was transpiring in your unconscious and begin to take action upon it.  Often, by the time the shadow period ends you will have at least started and in some cases even completed the task the Universe brought to your attention. 

The first table below outlines the schedule for the coming year so you can mark your calendar accordingly.  The second one summarizes the various retrograde effects of each of the planets (except the Sun and Moon, which have the good graces to keep moving in the proper direction) so you can know what to expect and plan accordingly, at least as much as humanly possible.  More specific analysis of the effects can be done with your individual chart.

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Planet	Start Position	End Position	Begin Retrograde	Resume Posigrade	End Shadow Period
Mars	23:05 Virgo	03:41 Virgo	24 January 2012	13 April 2012	20 June 2012
Saturn	29:30 Libra	22:45 Libra	7 February 2012	25 June 2012	2 October 2012
Mercury	06:48 Aries	23:56 Pisces	12 March 2012	14 April 2012	23 April 2012
Pluto	9:34 Capricorn	06:57 Capricorn	10 April 2012	18 September 2012	8 January 2013
Venus	23:59 Gemini	07:32 Gemini	15 May 2012	27 June 2012	1 August 2012
Neptune	03:09 Pisces	00:21 Pisces	4 June 2012	11 November 2012	2 March 2013
Uranus	08:32 Aries	04:36 Aries	13 July 2012	13 December 2012	30 March 2013
Mercury	12:32 Leo	01:30 Leo	15 July 2012	8 August 2012	23 August 2012
Jupiter	16:22 Gemini	06:19 Gemini	4 October 2012	30 January 2013	26 April 2013
Mercury	04:14 Sagittarius	18:31 Scorpio	6 November 2012	25 November 2012	15 December 2012

 

Planet	Stationary	Rx Frequency	Rx Duration	Transit Effect	Natal/Progressed Chart Effect
Mercury	hrs - days	3X/year	3 weeks	Communications of all types, verbal and electronic, are disrupted or misinterpreted on all levels, including personal, business and legal.  Paperwork gets lost or messed up, computers crash, appliances go out, cars break down.  Anything purchased during this period is likely to never be "quite right."	You are likely to be frequently misunderstood or you may have problems with self-expression.  You are likely to be introverted.  When Mercury goes posigrade in your progressed chart, you are likely to "come out of your shell."
Venus	3-4 days	1X/18 months	6 weeks	Forces a good hard look at areas affected by Venus, i.e. romantic relationships and finances.  Value system is likely to be questioned and may be redefined.  (More on Venus RX.)	You may have relationship issues in that you either feel unloved, cannot accept affection comfortably or withdraw from your partner.  You could also feel you never have enough money.
Mars	~ 5 days	1X/24 months	2 months	Emotions and energy are turned inward resulting in passive aggression & stress.  Competitive nature is likely to be also turned inward, causing a person to compete more with themselves than others.  Motivation and enthusiasm for a project can wane.  (More on Mars RX)	May have trouble asserting yourself, be overly shy, and unable to stay focused on goals.  Allowing others to walk on you or expecting them to fight your battles for you are also possible.  If/when Mars goes direct in the progressed chart, these can reverse and vice versa.
Jupiter	5-8 days	1X/year	4 months	Ethics reevaluated, religious beliefs questioned, philosophies revisited, often on a grand scale.  Not a good time to travel as plans are likely to be disrupted.	May constantly seek the meaning in life and attempt to find spiritual values that never quite seem right.  Can also be enthusiastic about worn-out ideas, but on the positive side may found hidden value or potential in certain situations or businesses.  When/if Jupiter goes direct in the progressed chart, over-confidence can result in over-extending plans or finances.
Saturn	11-12 days	1X/year	4.5 months	Expect delays and the necessity of extra effort.  Authority issues could arise.  Projects you thought were completed will require rework.	Likely to have frequent conflicts with authority or feel persecuted.  May fear approaching authority figures in general.  If/when Saturn goes Rx in the progressed chart, may acquire a sense of "What's the use?" and sabotage your own achievements.
Uranus	2 weeks	1X/year	5 months	Expect the unexpected.  Surprises and changes abound in events and behavior.  Plans, no matter how firm, are likely to be disrupted.  Introverts may become extroverts and vice versa.	Behavior is likely to be quite unpredictable, especially in areas affected by Uranus' house placement and/or aspects to planets in other houses.
Neptune	2 weeks	1X/year	5 months	Logic yields to intuition and creativity.  As the planet of illusion, there may be more media emphasis on fantasy.  More likely to be deceived or misled. Rather than feeling connected with others may feel isolated.	Can be very prone to living in a fantasy world steeped in idealism.  May set unrealistic goals and not possess the logic required to meet them.  Very intuitive and possibly psychic with a deep understanding of human nature.  May be incapable of dealing with harsh realities and try to escape via denial or possibly alcohol or drug abuse.  Strong affinity for the arts.
Pluto	~ 17 days	1X/year	5 months	Fresh starts/dead ends; destruction/ rebuilding.  Can be heavy forces outside your control, i.e. war, weapons, government upheaval.  May be forced to reevaluate what we value most or trigger intense soul searching and figurative digging through old baggage,  especially when opposite or in conjunction with the Ascendant.	Abuse of power is common, either as the one being used and manipulated or the one on a power trip.

Vulnerable ME

I am my angry self. I am at my worse.It was only when I was on the mat at the shala that I forgot I am vulnerable and sinning. I act like a  rock.I isolate myself from my family. I hurt my mom and dad.I hurt everyone. I am angry.I am tired. I am simply broken.

I am indifferent.

May I be healed.

Om.

WHEW!

I cant simply put down in words everything that I have been through for the past few days. I guess I have been down this road before.Those times when I could not tolerate injustice and I am so short of patience.I refuse to be very argumentative but i guess my nature is just like this. Now i just realize the moon's almost full.Oh gees,,..not that I attribute  all  this to this lunar phase but hey...nature has its own way of stirring me up.tsk tsk..